Monday 10 September 2012

she is too young...

you must be thinking...who is too young...
well have just seen this movie...
before saying my views lemme tell what it is about...
this movie is about a girl...a sweet,beautiful 14 year old girl...whose mother is doing everything and anything thing that she can to save her daughter.
actually not saving her but keeping her totally distant from the fears and dangers.

and then one day the most popular guy in school asks her out...

she is happy and with her parent's permission she goes out with him...and he seems to be a perfectly romantic and amazing guy...a guy with whom any girl would love to fall in love with.a combination of sweetness,warmth,politeness and wealth :P.
in the second date he wanted to take it a little far...but the girl didn't want that...so she refuses(she has heard stories about being a playboy)
and then after  a few days...they all had check-ups at school because their classmates are infected by a deadly disease...that is sexually transmitted.
and now this girl is suffered too.
no damage caused because they all have the shots for the disease and they will be fine...as docs have said them.

well this was the boundary line of the movie...

there were so many things that i realized after watching this movie.

well i am really a fan of the girl's parents...especially her mother. people say after some age mother is a daughter's best friend.but most of the mothers fail to this. you know why?

because they forget the first thing about being friends with someone...."you can't be someone's friend just because you think you have to" you need to give them space, so that they don't feel suffocated. yes you care about your child...but atleast...for once...trust yourself...your up-bringing.
hannah's mother is amazing...she loves her so much...she cares for her...and she protects her from everything she can imagine hurting her daughter...but she trust her :)
yes she did a mistake...and both the mother and daughter are devastated...but they still helped each other in understanding,trusting each other :)


the most important thing i realised from this movie...i am pretty sure have seen something similar so many times but today i really noticed it. it is so damn easy for a guy to gain a girl's trust...and you know what is even more easy...to make her go the whole way.

even in this movie...when hannah told a friend of hers about the guy's amazing behaviour, her friend said-may be he really likes you...or may be its his new strategy to...........

well he succeeded. but it doesn't meant that hannah was dumb...it just that all giirls are. we are so emotional, so hungry for love and care that we don't even notice people using us.
may be its just the way we are...or ...reason may be any...

and in the end she met a guy who tells her that he is ready to wait...until they know what they are doing...and are ready for it.

well may be that's just for the sake of a happy ending...
because after  watching this movie and all the other ones like these..i don't think honest people exist :)

and if they do....please mr.director...show that side too...we really need some positivity in our lives.

-Aaina.

No comments:

Post a Comment